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The Law of Attraction Assembles Happy Relationships… Asking your relationship with any other to be the basis of buoying you up is never a good idea, because the Law of Attraction cannot bring to you something different from the way you feel. The Law of Attraction cannot bring you a well-balanced, happy person if you are not yourself already that. The Law of Attraction, no matter what you do or say, will bring to you those who predominantly match the person who you predominantly are. Everything that everyone desires is for one reason only: they believe they will feel better in the having of it. We just want you to understand that you must feel better before it can come to you.
In simple terms, if you are not happy with yourself, or with your life, the attraction of a partner will only exaggerate the discord, because any action taken from a place of lack is always counterproductive.
— Abraham Excerpted from the book, “The Vortex, Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships ”
It is messages like this that one, remind me that I need to make time for myself to read this and the other books, which I do have, and two, I am seeing a pattern now in the people being drawn to me which is obviously an indicator of my current vibration. Prior to making this entry I got another call with a plea for money, I am the only one that can help, etc, etc, etc….And after the call, there was a moment of anger and frustration and looking in the mirror searching for the “ATM” on my chest or back. BUT, I know that my feelings of lack and needing money is attracting these persons with the same needs for money, so this is a LOUD and CLEAR indicator of where I am vibrationally. Until I get my spiritual (and financial) house in order I can be of no good to anyone else that I care about, but since not everyone knows about or understands or believes in the LoA it is hard to “talk” to them about what they need to be doing if they need money….the very same thing that I NEED TO BE DOING! It is already “challenging” to affirm, feel, think about abundance in the presence of creditor calls and notices in the mail but then calls like this where part of me does want to help BUT I know that I can’t and I know the real friends will understand and the fake friends will get angry and walk away.
There is much work to be done…much work at work, but also much Inner work that needs to be done, and trying to break free of the demands of work so that I can have that much needed time for myself to do the Inner work so that events like this will gradually fall away. It is obvious that I am making some progress because the “feelings” of frustration did not last as long as they have in the past where I would stew over something like this for hours. And now it was just a few minutes and I am not yet feeling good but not feeling the anxiety or frustration, just in neutral, general feeling area/zone.
Just saw a Facebook Friend post about needing money, needing money, needing money, needing money,….and on and on and on. I would offer them some encouraging words BUT they have forbidden me from writing them any more messages because I was not able to help them, but in their eyes I refused to help them. Of course with this attitude they would be always writing that message. But then again that may work for them if they can believe and not see everyone who is not able to help them not their friend.
Yes, I know I am rambling a bit tonight but this (lack of) money thing is becoming so much more and more on the spiritual radar with each passsing day, especially I try not to give into fear and anxiety but try to find the better thoughts and feelings and LOOK at things ABUNDANT without the “Lack Voice” talking to me.
But back to the relationships topic what I find that others “lean” on me to make them feel good but then when I am in need of a “lean” they are no where to be found. Which is a perfect example of not depending on others to help me “feel good”, only “I” can do that and only “I” am responsible for my good feeling. But, okay so I forget sometimes….and then get frustrated and then realize (again) what I am doing and what I should be doing. I am tempted to do an experiment and step back away and not be there to “lean” on and after some time to see who is still there. (there is a little bit more to this and ties into another topic/subject)
Well, I need to process some of this as well as finally get caught up on my AH seminar downloads, I seem to have gotten behind and I am sure there are tidbits of goodness waiting for me, maybe even something that will shine the light a little brighter on this and other things….
You can limit yourself by the story you have created about you. Here are some simple examples of how the story we have created about ourselves can limit us:
I am no good at math. I have never been able to dance. I am not a very good writer. I am very stubborn. I don’t sleep well. I am very moody. I struggle with my weight. My English is not good. I am always late. I am not a very good driver. I can’t see without my glasses. It is hard for me to make friends. Money seems to slip through my fingers.
The moment you become aware of what you are saying, you can delete these things and rewrite your story!
Guilty of saying some of these exact things on a daily basis…and I know better but I give in to the ”mood” or “what-is-itis” and thus keep the perpetual cycle going!
There is no random. Your life is the harvest of your thoughts.
Saw this Twitter post and wanted to share because of how true these words are. As much as things seem and feel random or just plain out of control….our lives are but the results of our past thoughts and feeling manifested into this season’s (today’s) harvest. So what thoughts are being planted today for tomorrow’s harvest?
Your Inner Being would want you to manifest everything that you decide that you want. Your Inner Being would want you to know that you have value and the ability to have or be or do anything. Your Inner Being would want you to fulfill every wish and whim that you could identify.
Excerpted from the workshop in Philadelphia, PA on Tuesday, April 14th, 1998 # 516
And these are words I need to remember as I sat earlier today glancing through my latest Amateur Radio magazine looking at new equipment I would love to have, contests that would be cool to participate in, as well as just the personal projects that I want to do but lack of funds and leisure time currently prevent from doing. (having to work today because of ever increasing work load as well as needing the extra money) But as I do prepare to work today these reminders will be carried in my thoughts envisioning the day when weekends will again be for leisure and have the money to once again the hobbies and interests my heart aches to enjoy again. One strong motivator is I want the slate wiped clean and be free to bring my son home to be with his daddy to enjoy father son time together and be a livinv example for him that the LoA does work!
Well-being is the only order of the day, unless you are doing something to pinch it off. So, little by little, more and more, people begin to feel comfortable with their own thoughts; especially, understanding that thoughts don’t have instant manifestational power, anyway. You live in this time/space reality where there is a buffer zone between the offering of a thought and the receiving of the manifestation. So it gives you a lot of opportunity to amend and add to.
Excerpted from the workshop in San Francisco, CA on Saturday, August 18th, 2001 # 515
(really see that I am thinking about/focused on work today)
On the one hand it is a good thing there is that buffer between the thought and the manifestation. Just imagine how chaotic our lives would be if every undesired/negative/fearful thought manifested instantly. But then on the other hand with that buffer comes the “When?” thinking which then leads to doubt when it doesn’t happen now. Which I know is the reasoning behind just focus on “feeling good” and less on the manifestation for the manifestation will come along with the good feelings. So just be happy and everything else will fall into place….just got to remind myself of this during those “difficult and challenging” moments…..
Every single human being is meant to be in joy. It is our natural state, and we know it, because when we feel negative emotions we feel terrible. We want to be happy. And the biggest thing to realize is that happiness is a choice, because it is a feeling generated from inside us. We have to make a decision to be happy on the inside now, to magnetize a life of happiness on the outside.
You know it never ceases to amaze me how these messages appear whenever I need that reminder or relates exactly to what I am going through or feeling that day or moment. I don’t read the Daily Teachings every day but today was drawn to look at it and this was much needed today is all I will say for the moment. I got to stop looking on the outside for my happiness, otherwise I will continue to be disappointed…like I was again last night and this morning. And I can “feel” the cry of my heart wanting to be Free and Happy…
A Secret Scrolls message from Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret
From The Secret Daily Teachings
Each of us is attracting in every moment of our lives. So when you feel that the law isn’t working for you because you don’t have what you want, realize that the law is responding to you. You are either attracting what you want or you are attracting the absence of what you want.
The law is still working.
So those who I see posting messages on other sites saying that The Law of Attraction does not work are in fact proving that the Law DOES WORK! But even I will admit that turning attention away from the absence of what I desire is a daily challenge.
I’m going to be happy. I’m going to skip. I’m going to be glad. I’m going to smile a lot. I’m going to be easy. I’m going to count my blessings. I’m going to look for reasons to feel good. I’m going to dig up positive things from the past. I’m going to look for positive things where I stand. I’m going to look for positive things in the future. It is my natural state to be a happy person. It’s natural for me to love and to laugh. This is what is most natural for me. I am a happy person!
Excerpted from the workshop in Sacramento, CA on Saturday, March 15th, 2003
For some reason when I read this the “Happy Happy Joy Joy” song from Ren and Stimpy pops in my head!
Got only 3-4 hours of restless sleep, accused the alarm clock of lying when it went off, fought off the sleep monster driving an hour and half to site to meet Verizon for the 2nd time because they were a no show the last time (and have this feeling they’re gonna be a no show again this time too), the site air conditioning is not working well, so chugging water and wiping sweat from my head, took three to four attempts to get this new receiver to accept its programming….BUT, I got greeted with the smiling face of my favorite 7-11 clerk, one those persons who is always friendly and smiles and just has this “something” that just makes you feel good when you are near them. That helped bump me a few clicks. A friend is dealing with financial difficulties from slow business and I wrote them a message saying I am hoping and looking for better days for both of us, and she replied with the same thoughts. A few more clicks…and now this Ren and Stimpy song is stuck in my head, but better that than the “other” things. So I am trying to find and reach for better feeling thoughts and just enjoying this time being out of the office and be free of that noise and distractions to think and “feel” my way closer to where I want to be….
What is the answer to every difficult circumstance in life?
Take the positive path.
Choosing the positive path can be easy at some times in our life and more difficult at other times. When everything is going along well, when we are on a roll, choosing the positive path just flows through us as an easy, natural choice. When something negative comes along it can be far more challenging for us to choose the positive path. But choose it we must! No matter how challenging the negativity may be, there is simply no other way to bring our lives back into positivity.
If negative situations appear, you must use your will and refuse to lower yourself to negative thoughts, words, actions, and emotions. Use your will and decide that not only will you focus on the positive, but you will ramp up the positive in every thought, word, and action of your day.
It takes determination, strength, faith, and the power of your will to focus on the positive when intense negativity descends, but remember that the Universe and the law of attraction are with you. As you focus on the positive, focus more on the positive, think of the positive, speak of the positive, and take positive and good actions, the law of attraction will give your life wings. Suddenly you will look around you and you will find that the negativity has gone, and that your life has been filled with goodness and joy.
From The Secret Scrolls by Rhonda Byrne
ou are the owner of all that you perceive. But you can’t perceive apart from your vibration. Feel your way, little-by-little, into a greater sense of abundance, by looking for the treasures that the Universe is offering you on a day-to-day basis.
Excerpted from the workshop in Portland, OR on Tuesday, June 10th, 1997 # 510
It does get challenging to overcome the great sense of fatigue from not sleeping well from worry about money (and other challenges) and that drained feeling also pulls one’s mood down and the vibration along with it. But I did do something last night that I had not done in a long time, and that was visit sites with luxury items & expensive homes and cars. Even signed up for a game on the Ford website to win a Mustang. Not that I am really a Mustang person BUT not owning a car at all, if I won, I would be a happy new Mustang person! lol But the game is a nice diversion of designing your own Mustang and if your design is chosen you win. Like I said a nice diversion as well as enjoying the “good feeling” of driving the Mustang I design. How cool would that be? So I am using this to help raise that vibration and trying to find other things as well.