Daily Law of Attraction Quotation – 7/30/2012
The Law of Attraction Assembles Happy Relationships… Asking your relationship with any other to be the basis of buoying you up is never a good idea, because the Law of Attraction cannot bring to you something different from the way you feel. The Law of Attraction cannot bring you a well-balanced, happy person if you are not yourself already that. The Law of Attraction, no matter what you do or say, will bring to you those who predominantly match the person who you predominantly are. Everything that everyone desires is for one reason only: they believe they will feel better in the having of it. We just want you to understand that you must feel better before it can come to you.
In simple terms, if you are not happy with yourself, or with your life, the attraction of a partner will only exaggerate the discord, because any action taken from a place of lack is always counterproductive.
— Abraham Excerpted from the book, “The Vortex, Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships ”
It is messages like this that one, remind me that I need to make time for myself to read this and the other books, which I do have, and two, I am seeing a pattern now in the people being drawn to me which is obviously an indicator of my current vibration. Prior to making this entry I got another call with a plea for money, I am the only one that can help, etc, etc, etc….And after the call, there was a moment of anger and frustration and looking in the mirror searching for the “ATM” on my chest or back. BUT, I know that my feelings of lack and needing money is attracting these persons with the same needs for money, so this is a LOUD and CLEAR indicator of where I am vibrationally. Until I get my spiritual (and financial) house in order I can be of no good to anyone else that I care about, but since not everyone knows about or understands or believes in the LoA it is hard to “talk” to them about what they need to be doing if they need money….the very same thing that I NEED TO BE DOING! It is already “challenging” to affirm, feel, think about abundance in the presence of creditor calls and notices in the mail but then calls like this where part of me does want to help BUT I know that I can’t and I know the real friends will understand and the fake friends will get angry and walk away.
There is much work to be done…much work at work, but also much Inner work that needs to be done, and trying to break free of the demands of work so that I can have that much needed time for myself to do the Inner work so that events like this will gradually fall away. It is obvious that I am making some progress because the “feelings” of frustration did not last as long as they have in the past where I would stew over something like this for hours. And now it was just a few minutes and I am not yet feeling good but not feeling the anxiety or frustration, just in neutral, general feeling area/zone.
Just saw a Facebook Friend post about needing money, needing money, needing money, needing money,….and on and on and on. I would offer them some encouraging words BUT they have forbidden me from writing them any more messages because I was not able to help them, but in their eyes I refused to help them. Of course with this attitude they would be always writing that message. But then again that may work for them if they can believe and not see everyone who is not able to help them not their friend.
Yes, I know I am rambling a bit tonight but this (lack of) money thing is becoming so much more and more on the spiritual radar with each passsing day, especially I try not to give into fear and anxiety but try to find the better thoughts and feelings and LOOK at things ABUNDANT without the “Lack Voice” talking to me.
But back to the relationships topic what I find that others “lean” on me to make them feel good but then when I am in need of a “lean” they are no where to be found. Which is a perfect example of not depending on others to help me “feel good”, only “I” can do that and only “I” am responsible for my good feeling. But, okay so I forget sometimes….and then get frustrated and then realize (again) what I am doing and what I should be doing. I am tempted to do an experiment and step back away and not be there to “lean” on and after some time to see who is still there. (there is a little bit more to this and ties into another topic/subject)
Well, I need to process some of this as well as finally get caught up on my AH seminar downloads, I seem to have gotten behind and I am sure there are tidbits of goodness waiting for me, maybe even something that will shine the light a little brighter on this and other things….